Your mindset dictates everything

Fabienne Fredrickson

“Nothing can stop the man with the right mental attitude from achieving his goal; nothing on earth can help the man with the wrong mental attitude.” 
– Thomas Jefferson

I’ve seen it happen thousands of times: a smart, creative entrepreneur (like you) offers something of great value, is working HARD to get clients and income…and yet, the results just aren’t showing up.

Sharing your offerings (you know, those things you love to do and are really good at) with people who need you starts becoming an uphill battle. Sometimes, it starts to seem like it’s not really worth it; or worse, like there’s something wrong with us.

But the real battle isn’t with your products, services or marketing. Something’s off on the INSIDE. If there’s a struggle on the OUTSIDE, it simply means that one exists on the INSIDE, and what I’ve learned from my 20+ years in business and mentorship is that it’s based on our conditioning.

It’s true (and it’s not your fault!): how we are conditioned affects virtually every aspect of our lives: relationships, health, finances and success.

If you’re experiencing struggle or results aren’t happening fast enough, it just means there’s an inner conflict that affects how you think and feel. It’s the struggle between your conscious and your unconscious beliefs.

“When your conscious mind thinks you want something but your subconscious mind thinks you don’t deserve it (or any other limiting belief), you will fail at getting what you want. Instead you will actually attract what your subconscious feels is right for you. In order to attract what you prefer, your conscious and subconscious have to be in agreement.”
–Joe Vitalea

So if clients aren’t coming in fast enough or money is REALLY tight, then it means that PART of you wants something (your conscious) and PART of you doesn’t (your subconscious).

The bad news is, your subconscious has veto power over your conscious, always.

The GOOD news is, once you clear the interior struggle, you get results almost instantly.

I share this with you because this is what has happened to me over the years – and continues to happen. It’s why the focus in all of my work, both as an entrepreneur and as a mentor, starts with the inner workings of the subconscious, or mindset. The more I match the inside with what I “say” I want, the more opportunities come my way, the more income shows up and the easier it all is, and I mean really easy.

Before you say “But you’re…” please know, sweet friend, I’m no different than you. Once you work on your own inner game, you too can experience the same results! We’ll do it together in March at my Mindset Retreat, I truly hope you can be there with me.

It’s not about working harder! If you want different results, you must change your subconscious beliefs and get clear on the fears that are incongruent with what you SAY you want.

Here are a few of the hundreds of fear-based beliefs I’ve heard over the years:

  • “They won’t pay for this”
  • “I don’t know enough”
  • “If I get bigger, they’ll find out I’m a fraud”
  • “I’m a failure”
  • “If I get too many clients, I’ll get overwhelmed”
  • “I’m not worth it”
  • “I can’t have it all”
  • “My expertise is common sense”

Any of these seem familiar?

If this is what’s going on in your subconscious, you’re essentially driving with the parking brake on! Let’s take that brake off, ok? We’ve got to do something about that if you want to begin seeing different results. Otherwise, you’ll continue to work REALLY hard and not see the results you say you want.

Your Assignment:

If you want to succeed, start getting rid of the GUNK and SLUDGE inside. The key is to become AWARE of which fears and subconscious beliefs are sabotaging you on a daily basis, like some of the ones listed above. You may need to ask for help with this, and that’s ok.

Once you’re clear on the beliefs that need to go, figure out where they came from, process them and then release them. This will immediately change the energy you bring to all situations, as well as behaviors you might not have been aware were holding you back. These changes will increase your income and new opportunities will start showing up…ones that you never expected. You’ll wonder why you struggled for so long.

Now, if the struggle is just about a lack of ACTION and you simply don’t know what actions to take, where to start or how to set up systems for marketing to attract ideal high-paying clients, maybe we can help.

We have loving strategy coaches available to talk with you in a free exploratory session to see if our program and community feels like a place for you to find the support and clarity you need.

And yes, mindset work is woven into everything we do, so we can help with that too.

Wishing you clarity, freedom and success. xo

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