Have you noticed you are attracting interest in your business, but somehow you’re not getting more clients? When this happens to people, there is usually something we call a “chaotic vibration” going on.
A chaotic vibration shows up when you say you want something (and of course you think you want it), but inside there’s either a belief or fear that’s in the way. It might be, “I want a full practice of ideal high-paying clients,” coupled with a belief system or fear that says, “Oh my goodness, if I have a full practice, I will lose my freedom. I’ll be working all the time with less time for my husband and children.”
Or it could be you don’t feel good enough. You might make mistakes or get found out as a fraud. Many of you fear clients won’t get results or you won’t be able to handle all the money.
These beliefs and fears are common, and you may have one or perhaps several holding you back. Your goals and fears are like oil and water; they do not mix well, which is why you don’t get clients. So you are attracting, but you are not receiving.
How do you unearth the belief or fear that is holding your back? Be honest with yourself. Most times, my students know exactly what is holding them back. Think about if you had all the business you wanted… What would feel a little wiggly and incongruent or uncomfortable? Then you’ll have your answer.
Once you know, then it’s time to plug into faith and your “big why.” Why are you doing this work? This is the part that provides joy, motivates and inspires you.
See, you are here to change the world. This is your divine duty. It’s time to get past the idea of playing small. You’ve got to dream bigger and plug into faith.
I’m going to share something really personal. I have a sign in my office that reads, “Women entrepreneurs are here to change the world and the time is now.” We must awake to our calling and our potential for greatness and step into it with courage and faith, taking a “no-excuses” approach to playing bigger game in service to others.
Client attraction and mindset work hand in hand through your life purpose to make it happen. When you are plugged into your big why and know this is your divine calling here on earth, of course you’re going to make it because people need you.
So be patient. Move forward with a no excuses approach. Remember, the day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit, and that’s okay. Your business needs time to develop and grow.
Your Client Attraction Assignment
Get out your journal and write about why your business is really happening. Look at it like a bird’s eye view. As yourself why this work needs to happen and how it can impact the greater good. Look into why you are the perfect person to do this work and why this message is coming through you for others. Then believe it and feel it deeply. You only attract what you expect and believe. That’s how you get clients.
This is just one of the many best practices we dive deep into with the students of The Client Attraction Business School, the premier training school for growth-minded entrepreneurs looking to quickly attract more clients and make more money. If you’re interested in finding out more, visit www.ClientAttractionBusinessSchool.com for more details. To speak to an enrollment coach, click here.
I have to say I am definitely the kind of person you describe in your post, Fabienne, and there’s plenty of chaotic vibration in my business attitude at the moment and plenty of both beliefs and fears that you are talking about. I actually represent the philosophy that says: “Oh my goodness, if I have a full practice, I will lose my freedom. I’ll be working all the time with less time for my wife and children.” :-)