I have got some relief for you today if you are prone to giving yourself a hard time or beating yourself up…
…feeling like you’re not doing enough, moving quickly enough, or telling yourself a “story” that you should be further along in your business than you are right now.
First of all, you are most definitely not alone.
In fact, I just coached one of our lovely members who was beating herself up about her results even though she’s doubled her business in less than a year since she’s been with us!
You see, she has really high expectations. (Maybe you do too?)
If so, in today’s video, I share with you the same advice I shared with her: 4 things that you can do right now to stop feeling impatient, which I consider essential skills for any advancing business owner. Watch it now:
The good news is that your thoughts, energy and vibration are 100% in your control.
It’s not what happens to you, it’s how you react to it.
Feeling confident is all about your perspective, how you are looking at things. Keeping yourself in a state of positivity allows you to feel confident, which leads to getting more done, because you’ll get yourself out there and take even bigger leaps.
We’ve all been trained to look at what isn’t working, how we aren’t good enough, and to compare ourselves (constantly) to other people.
(Ugh, it’s insidious, but it’s real.)
But this is a recipe for not letting the good things in and feeling depressed (even though things are really, really good, as in the case of our member this week)!
Instead, I invite you to take charge of your personal vibration and to make a daily practice of keeping it high.
The four steps I share with you in this video are some of the many tools we use here at Boldheart Business to create results you can’t create on your own, but there are so many more.
It all boils down to feeling gratitude and appreciation, as opposed to feeling like you should be further along.
Listen, I get it. Maybe your parents criticized you often when you were young or came down on you for getting an A minus, as opposed to an A plus.
Instead of beating yourself up for not having tripled your business in 8 months, you can look at all of the things you have accomplished in the last 3 months.
Measure backwards! Appreciate how far you have come. Expect good things to come your way.
And remember most of all…
We are so incredibly privileged to have this business. We get to serve people. The mere fact that this is an option for us (especially as women, if it’s OK to say) is truly something to celebrate. Am I right?
Your worth is not measured by external validation, and it is never in question. Your deservingness is not predicated on your results.
You, my dear, were born worthy.
You are enough, as is.
No amount of success will shift this. It is innate in who you are.
So, starting today, my sweet, let go of the idea that anything outside of you will make you more so. The business is simply the business.
You? You are priceless. As is.
So much love,
Fabienne
P.S. If you are ready to experience “disappointing” (haha!) results like “Jane” has (doubling her six-figure business in less than 8 months), reach out and let’s talk (even if you’re not at 6 figures yet, we’ll help you get to 10K a month consistently, and then some).
Apply for a call with a strategy coach so we can hear what your big dreams are, see what’s getting in the way, and map out a path to help you double your revenue and feel extraordinary about it.
You can request that free strategy call here.
We love you already. Reach out. xo
