Overcoming feeling like a fraud

Too many times in my life, I’ve been told to fake it ‘til you make it.

Truth be told, that never sat right with me. And it never felt right either.
The fear of being “found out” as a fraud and caught red-handed not knowing my stuff (like in an interview one day when I was in my early 20s) never sat well with me.

This same fear of being “found out” for not fully living their message is what holds a lot of people back from really getting out there in their marketing.

And so they continue to hide behind their computer, market less than they should and continue to play small…

…while saying they want to make a lot more. (Maybe you too?)

You, sweet friend, are here to do big things. So let’s address this so you can increase your impact in the world and how much money you make, OK?
Watch this week’s video to discover three ways that you can take charge and feel great about yourself, your work and your message:

Congruence means that what is in your message matches with what’s in your day-to-day life. Now…

You and I both know that there are plenty of people that talk a really good game but aren’t actually doing what they are telling other people to do (or experiencing the results that they are promising to others).

But not us. We are Boldhearts. And integrity is at our core.

This doesn’t mean that we need to be perfect or have it all figured out!
And it doesn’t mean that we are a fraud if we have a bad launch or an angry client.

This is a conversation about living more fully, more authentically and more honestly in your message.

So, if you’re not at the pinnacle of what you teach? Share that.

People love to know that you are in the trenches with them, figuring it out as you go along. They simply need you to be a few steps ahead so that they can get farther, faster.

Re-commit to living your message in earnest.

Talk your walk, as opposed to walking your talk, as I also explain in today’s video.

The best way to stop feeling like a fraud is to not be one. Even if it means sharing more of ourselves in a way that is authentic, vulnerable and true.

People love that. They gravitate to that like a moth to the light. And this means you attract so many more clients. 

Share the real YOU.

Much love,
Fabienne

P.S. Each week I invite you to come closer to us by applying to schedule a call with one of our strategy coaches, and I wonder if I’m doing a good enough job of communicating the value that you’ll get from this call…

…whether you choose to become a member of Boldheart Business or not.

Here’s what Holly had to say after her call with Caitlin:

“A huge thank you for our call today and your support and encouragement! You clarified a lot for me and gave me hope. That is just what I needed.”

Apply for a call with one of our strategy coaches. It’s free.

We want to hear about your business, to hear what’s working and what’s not working. And most importantly, we want to know what your dream for your business and your life is, and what’s stopping you from getting there. Then, we’ll map out a plan together – and if it involves working with us, great. If not, no worries. We’ll help you find other resources.

Click here to set up a time to chat. We are truly here to help.

You've known for some time that a transformation is needed for you to grow your business, income and impact.

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